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As Christians, we are called to reflect on the weight of our actions and the teachings of our Lord. But do we, like the Pharisees, limit the Ten Commandments to mere externals, underestimating the true nature and extent of sin? Jesus reminds us that there’s more to living righteously than what’s visible on the outside.
The world around us may reduce murder to the taking of innocent life alone, but the wisdom of Jesus shows us that sin lies deeper—it also resides in unbridled anger and unresolved bitterness.
“Therefore, if you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there you remember that your brother has something against you, leave your offering there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering,” (Matthew 5:23–24 NASB).
These verses speak volumes about how we worship God and how our worship is impacted by the state of our relationships. It’s not enough to attend church or make sacrifices if we harbor anger or bitterness in our hearts. Our worship cannot be pleasing to God if we neglect reconciliation.
Why Reconciliation Matters More Than Sacrifice
Many assume that as long as they show up to church on time, participate enthusiastically, or even make sacrifices, how they live outside of worship doesn’t matter. But Jesus challenges this mindset, reminding us that the way we treat others—our family, friends, or even strangers—matters deeply to God.
When bitterness or hatred festers, it not only disrupts our relationships but also our worship. Jesus calls us to pause our worship, make amends with those we’ve wronged, and then return to worship with a pure heart. As Paul writes in Romans 12:18, “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.” Living in peace with others is a crucial part of living out our faith.
Reflecting on the Sixth Commandment
If we take a deeper look inward after understanding this commandment, none of us have any reason to be proud of ourselves. Jesus teaches that murder isn’t just about taking someone’s life—it’s also about the anger and hatred we hold in our hearts.
When we let anger or bitterness take root, we dishonor God’s moral law. It’s no wonder Jesus urges us to reconcile before we come to worship. True worship means being at peace with those around us, just as much as it means being at peace with God. This is how we truly honor the sixth commandment.
Practical Steps to Reconcile and Restore Worship
As we reflect on our own lives, it’s important to ask, “Is there anyone I need to reconcile with?” Maybe it’s a family member, a coworker, or even a fellow church member. Here are some practical steps you can take today:
- Examine Your Heart: Ask God to reveal any bitterness or anger you’re holding onto.
- Reach Out: If there’s someone you’ve wronged or have unresolved conflict with, take the first step toward reconciliation. Don’t wait for the other person.
- Pray for a Softened Heart: Reconciliation isn’t always easy, but pray for the humility and grace to make peace with others.
- Make Worship Genuine: Before coming to God in worship, ensure your heart is free from anger and bitterness. This honors Him and brings peace to your soul.
A Final Encouragement
As followers of Christ, we are all on a journey of growth. Reconciliation is not a one-time action but a daily posture of the heart. Jesus calls us to live in peace, not only with Him but with others, and that’s where true worship begins. If you have unresolved conflict, let today be the day you seek reconciliation. Trust that God will meet you in that act of obedience.